Essential Safety Tips for Online Dating in 2025

Dating Smart: Your Safety Guide

Online dating opens up amazing possibilities, but it's important to stay safe. Here's how to protect yourself while exploring connections.

**Keep personal details private.** Don't share your home address, workplace, or financial information until you've built real trust.

**Stay on the platform.** Scammers often try to move conversations to other apps quickly. Keep chatting on TruMingle until you're comfortable.

**Trust your instincts.** If something feels off, it probably is. You don't owe anyone an explanation for declining to continue talking.

It's okay to do a quick Google search before meeting someone. Look for consistency between their online presence and what they've told you.

Before meeting in person, suggest a video call. This confirms they look like their photos and gives you a sense of their personality in real-time.

**Meet in public.** Choose a busy coffee shop, restaurant, or public space. Never meet at someone's home or invite them to yours.

**Tell someone your plans.** Share where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back with a trusted friend or family member.

**Arrange your own transportation.** Drive yourself or use rideshare. Don't accept rides from someone you've just met.

**Keep your phone charged.** Make sure you can call for help or get a rideshare if needed.

**Watch your drink.** Never leave beverages unattended, and be cautious about accepting drinks you didn't see prepared.

**Stay sober.** Keep alcohol to a minimum so you can think clearly and stay aware of your surroundings.

**Have an exit plan.** It's okay to leave early if you're uncomfortable. Your safety is more important than politeness.

If someone makes you uncomfortable on TruMingle, use the report feature. We take safety seriously and investigate all reports.

Remember: taking safety precautions isn't paranoid—it's smart. The right person will respect your boundaries and appreciate your caution.